Living together
On the energetic dynamics of families and small groups
What you feel is real.
Sometimes, as a family or small group, things just feel off —
and you can’t quite put your finger on it.
The dynamic feels stuck.
Things go unspoken.
Or they’re spoken a lot —
with conflict as the result.
No matter how hard you try,
it seems like you just don’t reach each other.
That can be confusing.
Because you love each other.
You mean well.
And yet something seems to sit between you —
something invisible, but deeply felt.
The Penta. An invisible structure
Human Design names a phenomenon
that explains exactly this: the Penta.
An energetic form that arises
as soon as 3 to 5 people come together in the same space.
Think of a family.
A household.
A friend group.
The moment these people come together,
a new form is created: a group mechanism.
Not a sum of individuals,
but a shared energetic dynamic
that seems to set the tone.
You can’t hold it — but you can feel it.
And once you gain awareness of it,
you begin to understand why certain things keep clashing,
while others seem to flow with ease.
What I can offer you
Penta Analysis
I offer a Penta Analysis for your group. This may be your family, or any other group you live or function with.
In this analysis, I don’t look at behaviour — I look at energy.
At what is created when you’re together.
At where it flows, and where it stalls.
You’ll receive no judgment or diagnosis from me —
only a loving mirror.
With practical insights to help create more space,
ease, and connection —
where there is now pressure, misunderstanding, or conflict.
Sometimes, simply seeing it is enough.
Realising it’s not personal — it’s structural.
And that brings a breath of relief.
An example from my own family
When my husband was still alive, we formed a family of four with our twin daughters.
At the time, I created a Penta Analysis of our household — and many pieces fell into place.
We saw how certain patterns arose naturally.
How some tensions weren’t personal battles,
but simply the result of how our energy combined.
And how, by becoming aware of it, we could respond with more love and understanding.
My husband passed away in 2023 after his journey with cancer.
That analysis remains one of the most meaningful gifts —
a way to honour the life we lived together.
I share this example with care —
as inspiration to download,
or as a gentle entry point into your own process.
Practical
A Penta Analysis includes:
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A preliminary stage where I gather all the Designs (dates of birth required)
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An energetic analysis of your group (the Penta)
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A 90-minute live or online session where we explore what has become visible together
💡 Investment: €500 excl. VAT
📅 Scheduling is done together — online or in person, depending on what fits.
Why this works
Because it’s not about blame. And not about changing each other.
It’s about understanding. About recognising patterns and embracing differences.
About learning to live with the people you live with —
in a way that feels right for everyone.
Curious whether this might be for you?
Feel free to reach out. I’ll tune in with you.
In closing...
You don’t have to do this alone.
If there’s friction in the group, it doesn’t mean someone is failing.
It simply means something wants to be seen.
I’d love to help you with that —
gently, clearly, and without judgment.
So you can return to truly living together…
instead of side by side.